Trying to Adjust

I have been trying to learn my own hair, what works and what doesnt work.  Tried SO MANY PRODUCTS that my hair is confused.  I know that Tresemme has NATURAL PRODUCTS that are awesome. I love the shampoo and the conditioner.  I find that Kinky Curly is the best for my hair.  I am good with Eco Styler and I love the Moisturizer Shea Butter (Curling Cream) from Target is fantastic. I even tried the deep conditioner that one creates in their own kitchen.  Its mayo and olive oil... oh my God it was amazing.  My hair never felt that good. I will do that twice A MONTH. I found that my hair loves coconut oil. I put some in it and wrap it and my hair shines and smells good.  I am still adjusting. The biggest adjustment is the opinions of others. I know my sister and my daughter want my hair straight.  I get the "when are you going to the beauty parlor' from my sister and from my daughter "If thats what you likw or want".  Yep it is.. and I am truly happy with it.. .so I wont be doing the beauty parlor and I do like it.